The loss of Fidus Achates
Interesting how, as we were going around the room reading paragraphs from the Big Book, I read this particular one on page 99:
If there be divorce or separation, there should be no
undue haste for the couple to get together. The man
should be sure of his recovery. The wife should fully
understand his new way of life. If their old relationship
is to be resumed it must be on a better basis, since the
former did not work. This means a new attitude and
spirit all around. Sometimes it is to the best interest of all
concerned that a couple remain apart. Obviously, no rule
can be laid down. Let the alcoholic continue his program
day by day. When the time for living together has come,
it will be apparent to both parties.
